She understands women really well

I had a chance to catch up with one of my friends that I had not talked to for a while.  She was really interested in doing a “Q and A” session with me to answer some dating and relationship questions that are brought up everyday. So here we go!!

Nabil: What are some signs you can read when a man is not trying to be himself?

Vicky: I really hate when men try to show off and talk about themselves too much. I can tell that a guy is insecure when he is trying too hard to prove that he is the”MAN”.

Nabil: Why do you think some women test men? What are they testing for?

Vicky: Some women will test men to see if they get jealous. They might start giving attention to other men to see how you can handle your emotions. It ‘s fine if a man gets a little jealous, we like that. However, too much jealousy is a turnoff.

Sometimes we also test by not calling men or not acting interested. The reason we do that is because we don’t want to be pushy and needy. But too much of this will lead to playing games which isn’t healthy.

Nabil: Do you believe that attraction can occur right away or do you believe that attraction occurs gradually as you get to know each other?

Vicky: I think that attraction occurs gradually as you get to know the person.

Nabil: Is it okay for a man to be dating more then one girl at a time?

Vicky: I think that it totally fine as long as you are just getting to know more about your date. However if things progress further then it is absolutely not right to date more than one person.

Nabil: Do you have to have a lot of money to be successful with women?

Vicky: No you don’t. As long as you have a stable job and I can see that a man has dreams and ambitions he will still be able to win dates .

Nabil: What behaviors in a man tell you whether he is a potential long term partner or if he just wants a hook up? What small things matter.

Vicky: I can tell by a man’s behavior during a conversation by the things he talks about.  If he asks me questions about my life and my interests, it shows that he is interested in getting to know me more. But if he moves fast and starts getting too physical I will sense that he isn’t a suitable long term partner.

Nabil: Why do some women lead a man on and then pull back suddenly? What makes them do that

Vicky: These kind of women love the “Attention”.   A lot of women will do that to see how far a man will go to chase after them but if these kind of games continue its immature. Some women that do that are very insecure.

Nabil: Would you date a man that parties a lot or would that give you a wrong impression about him?

Vicky: Yes, I would date a man that parties as long as he is honest to me about where he is going to party and with who.

Nabil: What are some things that men don’t get or are missing when they are interacting with women or engaged in the first conversation?

Vicky:

• They start getting intimate too fast
• It’s also very annoying when they are texting constantly while we are out together
• Some men don’t know how to make confident eye contact.  The way a person looks at you can make a big difference.

Nabil: If a man was walking and randomly but politely stopped you and said, “Hey I just want to let you know you look very beautiful.” Would you be offended if it was in a kind way. Or would you be flattered and welcome the comment?

Vicky: I would kindly response and thank him. However, if he asked me for my number, I would find that random and wouldn’t give it to him.

Nabil: Do you like the whole playing “hard to get”. Do you like men that play hard to get. Does that make you chase them more. Or do you prefer not playing those kinds of games?

Vicky: The whole playing “hard to get” game people play is fun in the beginning but I don’t like it when men do that . It would be way better if they are straight forward with me so we are not stuck playing games. If you are interested in me you have to show me, don’t play hard to get games.

Nabil: How would you feel if a guy liked you and was straight forward and told you how he felt after a few dates. Or do you think guys shouldn’t express how they feel and let things happen naturally?

Vicky: Again, I would really like a guy to be straight forward about his intentions with me. I think many men are afraid to express the way they feel because they think it is against their manliness. Communication is key when interacting.

Nabil: Can you give me a few reasons why you don’t return phone calls of men that you go on dates with?

Vicky: I always return phone calls. Even if there wasn’t any chemistry on the date I will still pick up my phone.  I will usually be upfront about what I felt about the date.

Stay tuned for more helpful content coming your way!! Hope you guys are having a great weekend.

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